Letters to the Editor
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Bravo!
This is the best advice Mr. Tennis has ever given in these pages.
And a hearty second on the Rev. Wright.
Amen.
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Why not try the Peace Corps?
I'm surprised only one other person mentioned the Peace Corps. First though, I'd grit my teeth and finish the undergrad degree. I was once in a similar position with a grad degree - I absolutely hated it (I didn't know I would when I applied and entered the program) and the university I was studying at but I stuck it out and got my degree and have not regretted it. But whether or not you decide to graduate right now, you can still join the Peace Corps (a college degree isn't mandatory). It not only gives you the opportunity to learn a new language, but you would learn a new culture, new business or other practical skills, and how to fend for yourself and become more self-sufficient. They also provide some medical benefits, some financial benefits, and it looks great on grad school applications, as well as your resume. They have partnerships with some grad schools which give you an advantage when applying to those programs. I regret that I never volunteered - the people I have known who have volunteered have been mature beyond their years and speak a second language fluently. It is true that some people do not have a good experience with the Peace Corps, but it's those kinds of experiences that overall make you stronger.
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stay in school
I teach at a university. So, I deal with students and their problems on a daily basis. I can tell you that you are very lucky. Increasingly, I see parents throw their children out into the world wholly unprepared. Fewer students than you think have "full rides" or even just their tuition covered by their parents. More likely, they are racking up huge amounts of student loans or trying to work full time and screwing up their GPAs.
Your parents sound a bit controlling. However, they are doing the right thing by you. The simple fact is, whether you like it or not, a degree is a ticket to a decent life. If you are looking for a "practical" degree, then complete one. Cary's suggestion of a business major is a good one. Nursing is another degree that is very practical and gives you a good paying job where you do useful things all day long.
You blew your first chance, don't blow your second.