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I am the keeper of secrets
In our foursome everyone confides in me. I fear I'm betraying them all.
By Cary Tennis [2008-03-28]

  • I don't see why being attracted to OG is a problem

    As long as you make it clear that you're loyal to Hubby. If what you've got with hubby is good, it's not worth wrecking your marriage. If you've got marital problems, all bets are off.

    I've been in that boat. As long as you are 100% sure that your happiness is with hubby and your not the type to get drunk and stupid: no problem.

    I do think you should mention to each member of the couple that while you respect their confidences, the other has spoken to you.

    And you want to be careful what you advise OG, as 'find someone better' advice might be misconstrued. You are the logical other woman for him.

    -- Malusinka
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    Friday, March 28, 2008 01:21 AM
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