Letters to the Editor
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First Do No Harm
There are valid points from different perspectives. However, I would point out that the elderly neighbor has also worked hard for her house, in one way or another. It shouldn't be taken from her because of a neighborhood war with good intentions. In addition, as several readers have pointed out, the Oleander neighbor did was illegally trespassing--if it was indeed without the elderly neighbor's permission. There is no justification for that act, and as property owner Oleander lady should know that. Even worse, she involved a second person, the gardener, in an illegal act--what did she do, lie to him about her permission to plant on that property? If so, she is demonstrating that she is a bully and potential trouble if she is willing to lie to get her way. I hate to see how the elderly and disabled are treated patronizingly, and the elderly neighbor is in danger of being a pawn in other people's games. For the LW, from a legal and ethical perspective (as a teacher of law and ethics) committing any form of trespass upon Oleander lady's property will take *you* from the high road, and impact any complaint you may make to the police at a later date. Don't do it. LW knows the politics and options of her neighborhood, local codes, and police. Keep in mind that Oleander Lady may be vindictive and without a superego to keep her in check. Consider the best case scenario and worst case scenario if you act, or do not act, but for God's sake do not do something to cause this elderly neighbor harm just out of misplaced good intentions.