Letters to the Editor
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Your problem is not your guest, it's your husband
You can't blame your husband's cousin for taking your husband at his word. He's the one who said she could come over any time without calling first. How is she supposed to know that your husband doesn't say what he means or means what he says? Now you are stuck in a situation where your husband would much rather inconvenience you, to the point where you have lost a significant sense of comfort in your own home, because he is too afraid of possibly, maybe, perhaps offending his aunt and uncle.
Honey, you have way bigger problems than who uses your pool. You are living with someone who, despite the fact that he has sworn to love and support you above all others for the rest of your days, would prefer that you suffer in a situation you find intolerable rather than risk the slightest chance that he might offend distant relatives. Wake up and smell the chlorine.