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My husband's cousin dives in without asking.
  • Asking her to call first

    won't do any good. You and your husband already have problems saying no. If you ask her to call first, you are putting yourselves in a situation of having to say no frequently.

    So, if you want to become better at saying no, this would be a good way to learn. But, if you don't, just set up a schedule that works for you (Tuesday nights, whatever).