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What's the problem?
The boyfriend hasn't asked the LW to move in with him. So why should he give her a key? If the LW doesn't like running around with a bag, then don't do it. She could always have him stay at her place, because it's more convenient for her.
Call me crazy, but I'm not a fan of people living together before marriage. And even after marriage, I'm not a fan of "totally blending" lives. I think it's important to keep your own bank account, a room of one's own, etc.
The LW sounds needy to me. Why does she need a key? Personally, I think she's pushing for marriage and the boyfriend doesn't want it.