Letters to the Editor
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Take your stuff and go home!
I'm with Cary on this: stop accommodating his self-centeredness, and stop schlepping your stuff back and forth to his apartment all the time. If he really cares about you and wants to see you, he'll make the effort to come to you. And if he doesn't, well, that's pretty telling, isn't it?
It might be worth spending a little time thinking about why you've been willing to go along with this up until now. Is he so fabulous in some other respect that it's worth it? Somehow I'm not seeing that. What I'm seeing is a guy who can't be bothered to meet you even halfway. Whether it's because he's fundamentally selfish or just not that into the relationship - who knows? But either way, is that what you want for yourself? Because it doesn't have to be like that. Seriously, it doesn't. Wouldn't you rather be with someone who acts like he wants to be with you than just allows you to come over when it's convenient for him?