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I'm sitting on the steps with groceries, waiting for him to get back from the gym.
  • Good Lord, been there...

    I have dated this man. (Not really.)

    In my case, the guy had control issues and I thought I needed to be respectful of him and his space. I also thought that no one would love/put up with me if I broke up with him.

    In time, you'll see that your love and respect is good enough, he isn't. Right now, find some activities that support your interests not just for the distraction, but to better yourself. When you're ready, just simply walk away without explaining yourself. He'll know why.

    Good luck.