Letters to the Editor
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@domini
"A man who is interested in his space would not have encouraged her to leave stuff there in the first place. A real man would meet her half way. Boy needs to man up.
I agree that she should not have left things there. I do NOT agree that it is all of her fault. HE encouraged her to leave things there, HE wants her to schlep stuff. That's just asshattish. HE needs a brick to the head."
C'mon, it hardly seems like she needed any encouragement. She's a grown ass woman and if she left so much important stuff at his house such that she had a big problem if she didn't have access to it when he was not there, then that was partly on her. He may or may not be an asshole but let's not pretend that she's just some infantalized victim. She's playing her "key" games as well. Her problem at the moment is that she isn't getting what she wants.