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Bag this guy
Cary's advice was absolutely perfect. But I would not even give this guy the chance to prove he really wants you, LW. I would just bag him. While this guy might not have other girlfriends who stay over, he definitely does not want you snooping in his stuff, LW. Why? If he travels a lot, he might have girlfriends in other cities, or maybe even boyfriends whom he is e-mailing, or he's into online porn, or other cyber stuff he does not want you into his computer checking. In any case, there is a degree of if not outright dishonesty, then certainly not a quality of being forthcoming which is what is needed in a real relationship.