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You are paying rent for a place you are only allowed to use when your boyfriend is away.
That's the upshot, isn't it? You have to be at his place for him, but you can't be at his place without him.
The next time he comes home, be at your own apartment. Let him call you to see what's going on. Tell him that if he ever wants to see you again, it will be at your apartment, and he will be giving you a key to his place.
I doubt he'll do it. Frankly, though, there is just about zero chance that he's a keeper, so this is fine. Let him lose you through his own arrogance and move on with your own life.