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@Tara21
Ah! Gotcha!
I think something women really, really need to get out of our collective heads is that if we take care of other people, without any promises or demands on our part, that they'll step in and take care of us. It's not that I think no one will ever take care of us, it's that I think we need to learn to take care of ourselves first, even when it means weathering accusations of selfishness.
I think we also need to learn to let go of people who not only don't take care of us, but actively interfere with our ability to take care of ourselves, which is what Dating Limbo is all about.