Letters to the Editor
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It's yours!!!
Bottom line - it's your parking place, period. The condo you own came with two parking places for you to use or not use as you see fit, as did your neighbor's - you knew this when you bought the place as your neighbor undoubtedly did when she bought her place. You are under no obligation whatsoever to let anyone else use your space just because you don't happen to be using it at the time or because there isn't enough parking elsewhere in the area. You aren't "hoarding" anything - you're reserving your right to have your property available when you need it. As others have pointed out it's no different than having two bathrooms inside your condo - the fact you may only be using one at any given time doesn't mean someone else can come in and use your bathroom without permission because they think it's more convientent for them.
So tell your neighbor no when she asks to use your parking space again. Be nice and polite but firm - don't let her bully you into doing something you obviously don't want to do. Then contact your condo association and/or management company and let them know what's been going on and ask for suggestions about handling this problem - chances are you're not the only person in the complex who's encountered this issue. The next time there's an association meeting ask that the parking issue be put on the agenda. Suggest that unit numbers be painted on assigned spaces if they're not already there and that towing signs be erected and parking regulations enforced - I'll bet other condo owners will back you up on this. Start alternating between parking spaces so no one assumes your second space is never used. If someone parks in your space again write down the license plate and leave a note saying the next time you see this car in your space you'll have it towed and follow through if it shows up again. This may be more work than you think you're willing to do, but you can't let your neighbor or anyone else push you around. If you don't stand up for yourself and your property, who will?