Letters to the Editor
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I think you're blowing it out of proportion
Granted, I was not there. But were you both not out there having a good time, maybe drinking, dancing with lots of people, and living it up? Is it possible that your manfriend agreed with the bimbo's request to make you jealous just out of a playful spirit and not because he was seriously trying to get you jealous? Maybe somewhere in the back on his mind he thought it would stir up some jealousy that would serve him in some way, but I see this as a potentially awkward social situation served up by the 23-year-old bimbo that your manfriend navigated in a less-than-ideal way.
If it was me, the subject would not be broached again unless it happened again. And then it would be approached on the spot clearly and simply. If you see that bimbo in a social situation again, I would just tell him not to spend any time with this woman, or he will risk seriously pissing you off. And if you're out dancing again and he dances inappropriately with someone else, just make the boundaries clear as soon as he comes off the dance floor. Address it and leave it behind.