Letters to the Editor
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Oh Man...
Crack?
Really?
A sock in the face or a major wake up call will come for him, but what about you? I didn't notice anything in the letter about this relatively new partner being your big love. Are you in love with him? Now that you know this little detail, do you really love him or do you just want to fix him? No way it's just once a week. That is just another part of this that is unbelievable.
I've always failed, miserably, at attempts to mend the wounded partners. I got dragged under every time and it may have been love, but the downward spiral was imminent. You may feel terrible about doing it, but as soon as he is in good hands, support him while calmly moving aside. It sounds like survival will be the name of his game, for a long time.
Relationships are challenging enough without a monkey on someone's back. This is a mean one LW, so good luck.