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I love him to death, but I'm not so hot at fidelity.
  • Take a break

    I knew a girl like the LW in law school. There was a good guy who loved her - she took a break from him, dated and screwed several men and women, got it out of her system, and then got back together with the good guy. Today they are happily married with kids. Maybe they will be together forever, maybe not. At least they have a chance. My advice is take a break from your relationship - you don't need to get into why. Explore yourself, have fun, get therapy, and after you are done with that you can think about getting married. Maybe the guy you are with will still be available, maybe not. Either way, you'll both be better off if you get this out of your system before you commit.