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I love him to death, but I'm not so hot at fidelity.
  • A Simpler View

    I suspect that the majority of people have a fear that they are giving up something important by getting married and wonder what that other life might be. I don't see that this person is so unique. Is anyone ever 100% sure of anything?

    I think Cary's honesty advice has merit but I think it is easier to frame it as a simpler conversation of fear of what she is passing up rather than a dissertation on all of her past foibles and potential alternatives. I bet the guy has similar feelings.