Letters to the Editor
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How Old Are You?
If you wonder about all this stuff when you are 17 or 19, then you are normal, and you should wait to get married. If you wonder when you are 30, you have about one year to make up your mind, so do everything immediately, and make up your mind.
Thirty is the right age to get married.
BUT! Do not burden this guy who adores you with all your own silliness. I strongly disagree with Carey about laying all your poorly-thought-out fantasies on this poor guy. He will not understand. Rather, he will go off on his own mental tangents.
Make up your mind about what you want. Do not disrespect the idea of utter marital fidelity, but do not plunge in if you want liberty instead. The best thing you can have for the rest of your life is a loving life partner, IF you are thirty years old.
If you are nineteen, a loving life partner might be the worst thing you can have.