Letters to the Editor
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Good answer Cary!
Human sexuality and desire are so incredibly complex. How can one turn off one of their most basic desires just because one exchanges rings and vows with another person? Obviously, monogamy is not inherent to human nature, nor is it to the vast majority of any other species.
Cary is right on the money. Be honest from the get go. Your fiances reaction might just surprise you. The bisexuality might totally turn him on, but just beware that he may use it to control you. He may not be threatened by another p*ssy in the room, but anothr c*ck may push him over the edge.
As someone who has been through a lot of deception and hurt through a long marriage I truly believe honesty is the only path to a happy and fulfilling partnership.
Good luck to you, my heart goes out to you. Just please remember, that your desires will not be quelled just because you exchange rings. Isn't the point of getting married or committing to someone a desire to be open and honest with each other?
If your guy surprises you and is GGG, you need to be prepared to accept his desires as well.
Sorry if I'm repeating myself, but I do think monogamy is a social institution, constructed by *supposed* moral authoritarians who can't even trust themselves to keep their dicks in their own pants. I.e. the catholic church and pretty much all republicans.