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now onto the advice
no, it's not only your partner's relationship. How antiquaited that wifie has to defer to hubby and let him handle all situations. She sent you an email, so you do have a conctact with her and may resond as you like. Do not respond with claws out, that just establishes that you're scared and that she has a chance. YOU aren't and she doesn't.
Address her with condscending pity. YOU're happily in a relationship with a great guy and she's a lonely cougar trowling for other folks men. Act confused but benevilent. Thanks for asking? but Fred's OK and he'll see you at work next week. Period. Put her in her place by superiority.