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Use your time alone at Xmas to think about this relationship
There may be really good reasons for your boyfriend to spend Christmas with his family without you. Sometimes this is the right thing to do, even for people who are deeply committed. But it wasn't all right for him to make this decision without giving you a thought.
It not only didn't cross his mind to discuss this decision with you, but, according to your letter, he has not even inquired as to your plans.
"Giving in bed" does not equal nice guy.
Despite the season, I'm not as generous as Cary about your boyfriend's motives. I wouldn't be surprised if there were lots of ways that this man either takes you for granted or doesn't really care that much.
And, hey, get divorced already.