Letters to the Editor
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Do not pity me: I prefer solitude.
Somebody smart (I forget who) once said something like, "If you are lonely when you are alone you are in poor company." Like you I am an atheist and I have spent several Christmas Days alone - although I have wonderful parents an affordable plane flight away and good friends nearby. Even those who know me well profess themselves appalled at the thought of me sitting home "all alone". Most are genuinely concerned for my welfare and I suspect some are a little envious. In the end I think people fall into two groups: those who are content with their own company and those who prefer to be with others. The latter group may sadly never understand that such a day can be an absolute joy. All you can do is be gentle but firm. You cannot change how these people think. I am going to family this Christmas. It will be wonderful to see them, and to catch up with old friends, but I'm also very much looking forward to New Year's Eve on my own. Just me in my condo with the fireplace and lots of candles lit, some books, a bottle of good wine, some chocolate, my favourite jammies, and absolute delicious peace. Its great to know someone else understands. Solitaire, I hope you have a wonderful day in wonderful company!