Letters to the Editor
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@ Anonymous 10:23
I don't value sexual relations in the same way some do, it's so base and random, it just doesn't hold much weight for me.
Of course sex is base and random, that is the whole point. It is all to do with being wild and out-of-control and losing the sense of the ego, albeit temporarily. It is a drug, just like music, only quicker.
You women spend too much time watching The Young and the Restless and forget that it bears no resemblance whatsoever to real life. I love the way your favorite adjective to describe sex is "sleazy". We know nothing about the LW's husband's sexual affair. Maybe it was the most joyous experience of his life. Based on my own limited (ahem) experience of sex, it is never sleazy seen from the vantage point of a participant, but always sleazy when imagined by a third party.
What is particularly galling for highly educated women is that highly educated men can enjoy is just as much or more with women of all social levels. In fact sex is positively communistic and ought to banned. Oh, yes, it already is. I almost forgot.
I think we all feel for this poor LW. The woman is saying "I feel like dying" and you can't get much worse than that.
Now I don't think I can do anything to help her at this point, but an interesting question is what would it take for her to be able to get to the point where she is able to say: "Well, dang, I always knew that he was a horny bastard, but this takes the frickin' biscuit. Just wait till I see him on the other side and give him a piece of my mind. Then he will know for sure how hot hell can be."
Therapy, maybe. Time, hopefully. Reading this letter definitely.