Letters to the Editor
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even ben likes to read writing he doesn't like: what can you get out of it?
His bad writing is an attempt to communicate with you. The metaphor and majesty in his writing are what the stories say about him personally; the reason you even cared write to Cary, I think is because you want to know him, and whatever majesty and metaphor exists within him. You didn't mention that you felt put upon specifically, but I mean, I would feel put upon. Who wants to read the solipsistic ramblings of an older man?
It also sounds like you're disgusted with him.
Maybe you can strike an agreement to read his bad writing in barter for something you'd rather he be doing (like joining a writer's group). Then you can learn more about him, but not have to read his writing for free... Maybe you can conspire to barter with your brother.
He is becoming an older man. Cary's advice was pretty good if you're less manipulative than all that though.