Letters to the Editor
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What a deplorable situation
For the KIDS. The 2 of you need to separate, take some deep breaths, check your egos at the door, & get a reality check. LW, you accomplish NOTHING by exacting revenge against your spouse. You already know she's a liar & a cheat, & your childish conduct only continues to fuel the anguish your kids must be experiencing right now. Believe me, they're not blind to the bitterness & rage they sense between 2 vengeful parents. Things will only escalate & get worse over time.
Tell her to leave. NOW. Do what Cary suggests & look for a decent therapist, because your kids will need at least 1 rational parent to provide them with some emotional stability for their future.
I've witnessed similar circumstances between married friends over the course of many years, including the destruction of my own parents marriage.... & it ain't pretty.
I'm sorry for the anguish you must be going through, but you need to step up to the plate for your children. I'm thinking you probably know this already, otherwise you wouldn't have reached out to Cary. Follow his advice & most importantly, trust in your heart that you can do the right thing. Take care of them, & take care of YOU. Good luck.