Letters to the Editor
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Split it up. Do music without boys. Do boys without music.
OK. You break up with BF because you couldn't be yourself. But you used to sing and play with him.
Now. Some guy wants you to play an instrument, but you are a singer, and are confused and think you would be crushed if you sang and played and he was negatively judgmental.
You also think that maybe you want to substitute this guy for ex bf.
OK.....
This stuff isn't connected in a logical way, but in some big muddle in your head.
Split it up. Do music without boys. Do boys without music.
You have made a breakthrough and are less inhibited and shy. Great. Go with it. Develop your musical talents incrementally and systematically, staying close to your comfort zone. The comfort zone doesn't have to start with a lover, and this time around, it shouldn't.
Do whatever you want with boys.