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Any protests from you are just going to further cement you in the "closet case" category in your boss's head. What you need is somebody with sufficient cred to tell her to lay the hell off, that she's sexually harassing you and making the world just that much harder for women to act in non-gender-normative ways. So, who's your angriest, dykiest lesbian friend? And how soon can she get there?