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My wife thinks I'm cheating on her -- but I'm not!
She's a war vet with post-traumatic stress, and I'm overseas with the Navy. She found a condom in my old deployment bag ... but it was a joke condom!
[2007-10-22]

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    For you and for her. Search specialists in PTSS and begin talking with one that fits, individually and as a couple. It sounds like you want to work on this and it will take some time, like any relationship in trouble. Paranoia and jealousy seem to be poisoning your life. She is out of control and you are in danger of being dragged into the quicksand if you don't do something immediately.

    I've let things get out of control in relationships, and the clean up afterwards will proliferate if you feel ambivalent. Believe me LW, I have stories... at least you aren't in denial! Best of luck to you and thanks to you and to your wife for your service.

    -- edziu's muse
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    Sunday, October 21, 2007 08:23 PM
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