Letters to the Editor
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There are very very few women like this
Yet, many men seem to think that a lot of women are like this -- just take a look at the imprisonment all women suffer in Muslim societies and it's all about physically preventing exactly what this woman is doing.
A lot of Western men would imprison their women, too, to prevent this, if they could. Fortunately, they can't get away with it, most of them.
I think men think lots of women are like this because lots of MEN are like this.
Cold, sex-obsessed, deceitful, selfish.
I'd really like to see some good research which tells us the truth about this behavior, as far as how many men do it and how many women do it, but asking people about how often they lie is not a way to get good data . . .
Anyway, this woman needs to recognize the substantial damage she is doing to gender relations in general, in that she validates and justifies the impulse which fuels so much abuse of women -- lack of trust. Every man she sleeps with walks away thinking that there must be a lot of cold, sex-obsessed, lying bitches out there, just like he suspected.
When, actually, most women are nothing like this, would never do this, can't understand why any woman would do this -- and yet have to deal with this widespread male fear of this.
Men are panicked of being her husband; they are freaked out to prevent this. Millions of totally innocent women are put through hell by their husbands because of the husband's frantic desire to prevent being treated the way this crazy woman treats her husband.
The men she sleeps with walk away believing that "women" will do what she does. I think she is very very rare, her behavior is highly unusual and that men should relax and trust their women. But then you have this sociopathic bitch running around confirming and validating men's worst fears about women.
She needs to recognize that it is not only her husband who is being hurt; she is spreading a nasty mistrust and even hatred of women to each of the men she sleeps with in this deceitful manner. And each of the men these men tell about her behavior, which is probably a LOT of men.
Gossip is going to catch up with her.
I hope she gets busted, loses her husband, pays the price and stops this damaging pattern; it affects others.
Jan VanDenBerg