Letters to the Editor
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I feel your pain...
I have to address Cary...Cary -- when a girl approaches a guy, that guy thinks your're going to have sex with him. And, when he learns that's not the case, he looses interest. Sure, I'm generalizing, but, I have been single for 12 long years, and I speak from experience. In fact, I was going to write for your advice on this very subject. I'm thirtysomething, but I easily pass for 28, beautiful (so friends say), intelligent, outgoing, athletic, practice Buddhism, make a fabulous blueberry pie, etc., etc. And, I've tried online dating, vision boards, and blind dates. And, I've been single for 12 years.
Anyway, LW, I feel your pain. And, pain is an option. I don't know what to tell you other than keep the faith. Perhaps some of us need to practice being alone.