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eHarmony is run by Christian evangelicals.
my internet dating friend found eHarmony to be the least cool, least intellectual, least arsy, most tacky and lowbrow of the dating sites. you read Salon and you're on eHarmny? pick a different one.
if you're dating a guy whi has to fold and smooth his chinos after taking them off instead of just tossing them wherever they land on the floor, run, don't walk.