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Wednesday, September 26, 2007 12:00 AM

Men on eHarmony seem obsessed with women who are "clean"

Doesn't everybody shower? Sixty percent of the men I meet on eHarmony say, "I can't stand someone who is not clean."

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  • Tuesday, September 25, 2007 06:40 PM

    Seems like housework to me

    perhaps a craigslist ad is different, but when people say they want a clean roommate, they mean they don't want to live with slobs.

    isn't also possible that, as a single person, you may have developed some bad household habits, not having to pick up after yourself or clean your shower or etc? and as a non-stereotypical-single guy, they're just not into that?

    it just seems too much like code for "clean" to mean chaste/hygienic/wholesome.

    (though i also agree with the poster that said it might mean drug-free)

    plus, with so much ambiguity, it also seems shortsighted to close off the potential match until you find out what it means...

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