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Tuesday, September 18, 2007 12:00 AM

Should I tell my new man that I used to date women?

I'm afraid if I tell him, he'll say, "Let's do a threesome."
By Cary Tennis

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  • Tuesday, September 18, 2007 01:47 PM

    don't tell him

    how can a person reveal EVERYTHING that they used to be? It would be overwhelming. Just put it in the category of, 'not-relevant'... unless perhaps you _want_ to shake his foundation... 'cuz you'd be, in essence, testing him, wouldn't you?

    i.e. I used to have a crush on Donny Osmond, I don't tell any guys that I date that. Not relevant, 'cuz I grew out of it - and wouldn't want to be judged on something so pre-history.

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