Letters to the Editor
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Well....what do you want more?
I love ice cream. I love pistachio and strawberry and Dr. Bob's dark chocolate. I love LOTS of flavors of ice cream.
Mashti Malone's makes some amazing exotic flavors with ginger and lavendar. All sorts of yummies.
But, of course, when I have $3 extra dollars and its a hot day and I think "Ice Cream would be LOVELY!" I can't have 12 flavors. Or even 3. Really not even two. I can only have one at a time. So I have to decide. What flavor do I want more?
What do you want more?
Do you want to remain happily married in a loving and developing relationship knowing that YOU, also, are a good husband?
Do you want to risk divorce and know that your actions are hurtful, unfair and ultimately risky to the physical and emotional health and safety of your wife, and continue kissing other women? Do you want to do that while stunting the development of your marriage? Do you want to be an emotionally stunted dick, fantasizing about really boring evenings that don't even end in sex?
Or do you just want to rip off the band-aid and get the freaking divorce already so you can eat all the ice cream you want everywhere you like. Because, y'know, that's an option. You could even get laid while on business trips.
Something to consider.
Everyone is gonna want you to be Option 1 guy. You're probably going to continue to be Option 2 guy. But you really should just take Option 3.