Letters to the Editor
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This is one where I would love the LW to write in!
To clear up her letter.
Is it jealousy that she's not seen as "one of the boys" so she's not going to the bachelor party?
Is she really good friends with the groom to be? If she is, then I could see being pissed at how come this other female friend of yours can come, but why can't I? I'm a fun wife! If not, she's just the wife of one of his friends, why would she be invited? Inviting yourself along is also bad form, it just screams to everyone, she can't trust her husband, she's really insecure. So is getting all the other women together and just showing up at the strip club, it just ruins it for the guys and also screams we're so needy we can't leave you alone for one night! We can't trust you with these paid women! I always thought the women in "Bachelor Party" who tried to bust into the party dressed like hookers were the lamest people.
Or does she really want to go to the bachelor party so she can keep an eye on hubby, which is the reason wives aren't allowed!
Or does she know this woman and know that this woman uses her single status to flirt with all the guys and then say naughty boys, look but don't touch, or even lets some of them touch? Or is she honestly a sports lovin', beer swilling, poker playin', jeans wearing doesn't give a damn what boys do becuase she accepts boys are how they are kind of gal?
Or is this woman a complete unknown so you are projecting all the worst character traits onto this woman out of fear?
I am suspicious that she doesn't like the name of the show "My Boys" like how dare she assume as a woman that she's equal friends with these men as their male friends. Their wives come first dammit! This woman better not think my husband is one of "her boys"!
P.S. I also think lady, you are sorely mistaken if you think you can watch your husband get all hot and bothered by the stripper and not get pissy about it, especially if you are at all having suspicious thoughts about this single women attending the party, unless it simply is the unfairness and tradition breaking that is ticking you off. Very very few of us humans are so secure that we don't get a little angry over watching our lovers face light up and get all horny over someone else. No matter how trusting we are. Not very many people can pull off polyamory or a swinger lifestyle.