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meaningless yet still dangerous
It would be nice if Cary's answer told the whole story. The whole story is that this cliched crap sometimes really does end with people in jail - usually for vehicular homicide.
Don't worry that the macho girl will be making fun of you. Of course she will. But at the same time, all the guys will be looking down on her, so it all evens out. As long as you're absolutely sure your husband won't get drunk and fuck her, there's nothing to worry about in the long term. Who cares if her presence is appropriate? The whole party is by definition inappropriate.