Letters to the Editor
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missing the point
As I read it, the gist of the letter is that the LW was okay with being excluded based on being female, but not okay with being excluded for being a "boring married (female)". All the other strip club tropes are irrelevant, they just determine the form that the LW's free-floating anxiety is taking. If the group was just going on a bar crawl, she would probably be worried about that too.

