Letters to the Editor
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Cary, you missed the issue
Yeah, the LW has control issues. Looking down on people who have ever done drugs in the past is a real problem. The LW recognizes this.
But if college was "more than a decade ago" for the LW's girlfriend, that would make her at least 32. That's a little bit old to be experimenting with cocaine at a party "because of peer pressure." It's especially old to be stupid enough to mix it with alcohol. And for her to treat that casually--well, I'd be concerned too.

