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As Harvey Kietel's character in from "Dusk 'til Dawn" asks George Clooney's character, "Are you so much of a fucking loser, you can't tell when you've won?"
She's with the LW now, so what she wanted in the past is irrelevant. She's been through a lot with the ex, so hopefully she's learned something from that and is a slightly different person now. He should grow a pair and stop projecting his insecurities on his soon-to-be-ex-girlfriend (if he keeps this up, that is).