Letters to the Editor
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hey one person
You said, "Even secure women sometimes feel some insecurity- you'd have moments of insecurity too if you were constantly baraged on a daily basis with images of semi-clad drop-dead gorgeous women peddling products, posing on magazine covers, displayed on billboards...everywhere you look, the message is "you'll never be this beautiful." "
Moments of insecurity are to be embraced because they actually make you better, stronger, and more honest. It's OK to be insecure. Was it Henry Rollins who said, " The only real security in life is insecurity" ? We all get pelted with this advertising myth and the stars and the cleverly covered torsos of wannabe models and bullshit artists. We all get hit and no one escapes. Unless of course, you can transcend by knowing that who you are and what you are is right.
Focus on more than just where his eyes go. That is rudimentary if you are serious that you may marry this person. Listen to some of the posters here, there are some interesting and very personal takes on your sitch.
Don't get so caught up in the glitter. We all want to be loved unconditionally, it's human nature isn't it? You sound so bummed about this that I want to kick you boyfriend in the shins and he really didn't do anything, except exhibit bad manners and maybe poor taste.
We all have insecurities... run from someone who tells you otherwise.