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"he simply can't help seeing and he comments before he thinks"
of couse he can help it. We all have free will to do what we want. We make choices and take deliberate actions.
He CAN help it, he simply chooses to do it even though it bothers you. He claims he can't help it and you chose to buy into the delusion rather than admit your husband cares more about oogling other women than respecting his wife. Observing and appreciating are not the same as oogling. We can all observe and appreciate, but should draw the line at noticible oogling if it disrespects our partners