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LW, thank you so much for giving all of us grammar/usage fanatics a chance to vent. It is such a rare opportunity to be able to indulge, even though it probably falls on deaf ears (my favorite is "hopefully").
I was giving my teenage daughter a hard time about using a wrong word, and brought out the saying, "If you can't say what you mean, how can you mean what you say?" She just rolled her eyes & said, "Whatever." ;-)