Letters to the Editor
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10 reasons to listen to Cary
1. Jail
2. Registering as a sexual predator the rest of your life
3. Losing custody of your daughter
4. Divorce from a guy you say you love
5. Public humiliation
6. The sex in jail is even worse than no sex
7. You'll be destitute for life due to permanent unemployment
8. He's your kid!
9. You are just avoiding the real problem: not enough sex with hubby
10. Cary is much more polite and kind than the rest of us.
Seriously, you say you know better and nothing will happen, but who are you kidding? Get on the phone to a behavioral therapist and get some help redirecting your thinking right now. Get hubby to a doctor, do couples' therapy, do romantic couples' weekends, do structured marriage renewal weekends, get a divorce and find an unrelated 20-year-old and go for it.
In short, deal with the real problem. You are at the peak of your sexual passion and obviously hubby isn't. You're transferring your appropriate passion for him to a younger version of him...sooo wrong on sooo many levels. And what's next...in 10 years you'll be competing with your daughter for the attention of her boyfriends?
Get a grip!
Put your energy into solving the problem, not creating a whole stack of new ones.