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Ben Dover's plan for a stealth divorce is almost perfect and should be required reading for every male child contemplating marriage.
Your 'only' hope....
unless you 'know' for sure' she will not 'ever' really want a divorce
...I expect you know nothing for sure...
If she wants to screw you in court...
your life is over
...unless you follow Ben Dover.
Oh, personnally I tried counseling and truthful confrontation...(9 year marriage) (2 kids <7)I had a very good lawyer so I was only in jail for three days...she was busy stealing our money during that time and setting me up for the fall.
It only took a year or two for my kids to realize she is the crazy one.
I got my house back and some of our money...but it cost me about 450,000 (lawyer was almost pro bono...really great guy) and only make 45k a year.(retirement, stocks etc)
Your treading on eggshells, only your too twisted to know it...you must not have any lawyer friends in family law or you would be white as a sheet until you get her out of there...
It is sad, and Cary's responce was perfect for 'this' letter.
