Letters to the Editor
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Tell her you will pay off her debts if she ditches the alcoholic and goes to nursing school
Then, give it out at the rate of $500 a month and stop giving it to her if the alcoholic hoves again into view.
And, don't give it directly to her. Write checks directly to her credit card companies, put them in envelopes and post them yourself. At the rate of $500 a month, as long as her toxic partner is not living with her or seeing her. Check by randomly calling her, calling him or have Child Protective Services tell you what they see going on there.
You could pay her tuition, directly to the school.
Don't give her any money to use as she sees fit. She can arrange for spending money herself.
Call child protective services. They will start a series of classes, etc which she will have to complete in order to keep her children, which will be another source of pressure on her to straighten up.
Jan VanDenBerg