Letters to the Editor
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Ooops!
Seems like someone who is pretty sure they don't want another kid would go the extra mile with the birth control.
Aaaanyway....
Although I'm pro-choice, I also view abortion as a tragic last resort. If it's not a health risk to you, you could have the baby and give it up for adoption. Of course, in your specific situation, that's probably actually not an option... :)
As to Cary's suggestion -- I'm not clear if your husband really wants this child enough to be a primary caregiver. That, to me, is the big question.
In my humble opinion... if it was me... knowing my own sensitive and sentimental nature...
- if your health was not at risk and...
- if I wanted child and...
- if I was willing to be primary caregiver...
an abortion would break my heart.
But that's a lot of "if"'s.

