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“Interesting letter, but supposing for a moment that we consider the admittedly unlikely scenario and that you are in a relationship with me, or a man like me, who simply finds porn uninteresting--not dirty, but not worth bothering with. What then?”
I don’t think we’d be a good match. Because when I use porn it’s rarely by myself. If you can’t be bothered what turns me on I’m going to be annoyed doing things that don’t necessarily get me off but you enjoy. And that would be a bad dynamic. No hard feelings. Most people aren’t good matches. We can still be friends :)