This letter is associated with the following article:
Letters
Wednesday, April 11, 2007 12:00 AM

Porn in theory, porn in practice

I should be able to think about porn dispassionately, but it bothers me a lot!

Read other letters about this article

  • Wednesday, April 11, 2007 08:46 AM

    re: American

    “Interesting letter, but supposing for a moment that we consider the admittedly unlikely scenario and that you are in a relationship with me, or a man like me, who simply finds porn uninteresting--not dirty, but not worth bothering with. What then?”

    I don’t think we’d be a good match. Because when I use porn it’s rarely by myself. If you can’t be bothered what turns me on I’m going to be annoyed doing things that don’t necessarily get me off but you enjoy. And that would be a bad dynamic. No hard feelings. Most people aren’t good matches. We can still be friends :)

Most Active Letters Threads

530

Do Obama officials know what his Afghanistan plan is?

What explains the completely contradictory statements from key aides on a central plank of the war strategy?
260

A new report questions "suicides" at Guantanamo

Why is the Obama DOJ attempting to block judicial review of three highly suspicious deaths?
224

I live in a van down by Duke University

How do I afford grad school without going into debt? A '94 Econoline, bulk food and creative civil disobedience
128

Is my kids making me not smart?

Stay-at-home fatherhood dulls my intellect to a nub. Excuse me while I ponder the subtext of "Hippos Go Berserk"
126

Trig, the anti-abortion straw baby

Sarah Palin's son is being used to demonize pro-choicers

View all »

Letters Help

Currently in Salon