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Tuesday, March 13, 2007 12:00 AM

My ex's grandmother left me some money -- should I share it with him?

He treated me terribly and I'm still getting over it. And I'm not sure what she intended.

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  • Monday, March 12, 2007 09:38 PM

    Gender differences

    Someone suggested that males and females would react differently to the letter. It's interesting that nowhere in the letter does it say that the LW is a woman. I sort of assumed the ex-couple was two men, given that we heteros are a little less likely to use the "partner" title. Of course, it doesn't change the ethical quandary of the situation!

    I tend to think the ex's bad behavior should not be a factor in the LW's decision. The ethical solution should not hinge on the way the relationship ended.

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