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Seriously. Your mother has been on this rampage for months and your very first move after all this time is to write to a complete stranger who can't even carry a weekly theme past 2 days? And you write knowing (though this is assuming a lot) the letters to the editor will all be a version of 1) I know exactly what you're going through because I'm going through it, too, or 2) I'm another complete stranger but here, let me give you a complete medical diagnosis based only on snippets of your letter or 3) Cary is a god and you meanies should never say anything bad about him, so just go away!
You, LW, have submitted the dumbest letter ever, although yesterday's was a close second. You know, the Asian guy who doesn't need to buy a cow because he gets his milk for free with that "ancient Chinese secret," called 'My parents will never approve of our marriage, so Shhh! and ley's have sex again.'
LW, your problems are beyond the scope of Cary the Book-Padder and his merry band of sycophants. Have you considered this: after stopping the Paxil mom finally came to her senses and she's just telling the truth? Hmmm.