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Wednesday, February 7, 2007 12:00 AM

From dating an Asian man to living with him: Parents still don't know

I'm a white woman in my 40s. His parents don't approve of me. Am I just insecure?

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  • Wednesday, February 7, 2007 11:02 AM

    yeah yeah

    The pedantic cultural education stuff is very nice, but this guy is involved with a white American woman, and is keeping her a secret because she is the made of the wrong stuff. He is screwing her around - plain and simple. This is an adult woman, not a little girl, and by the usual cultural practices (traditions) of the US - where they live - she doesn't have to put up with this. Please stop excusing this - it is only naked force being used in a racist fashion.

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